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| Are You Kids Stressing You Out? Slow yourself down and don't rush through it. I know most of you will fly through it because you have a million things to do. Places to go and people to do  .
It is amazing how much you can learn if you just slow yourself down and
don't pile too much on your plate. You can learn so much just by being
observant. There are so many things that occur in our everyday life that
are great learning opportunities. The slower you go, the more you'll take
in. The faster you go, the more you'll miss.I hear so many parents say their kids are stressing them out. Many parents are stressing their kids out too. Mostly due to bad judgment, bad choices, and horrible parenting skills. If you are one of the bad parents, I don't blame you or have any beef with you. You are just a victim of your environment. Read my Luck, Choices, and Destiny article to understand what I mean. I urge everyone who read this article to read my Luck, Choices, and Destiny article. The reason I write this article is educate existing and future parents because I feel deeply sad for the kids that are born into families with ignorant parents. When I see abused and neglected kids, it literally bring tears to my eyes  .
We humans are quite smart. Our kids should be living great lives.A newborn child is like a blank piece of white paper. So pure and innocent. Two bad parents get a hold of this piece of paper and start scribbling on it. When society gets a hold of this piece of paper, they scribble more chit on it .
By the time this piece of paper is 80 years old, it is unrecognizable.
A child is a little person waiting for screwed up parents to ruin its
life.
.A lot of people think that just because they have the ability to create a child, it automatically makes them smart or good parents. Any crack head can create a life. A lot of parents are just as dumb as their kids . A lot of
adults are nothing but overgrown kids .
Your kids look up to you and think you are god. Don't abuse your power.
Go and seek knowledge so your kids can have a decent life. If you have
to beat a child so they will listen to you, you ain't that frigging smart
. You can't
even outsmart a little kid. A lot of parents are so arrogant to think
they know how to raise a child. It's your foolish pride to make you think
that way. It's okay to not be smart, but refusing to learn makes you stupid.
I don't have to be a parent know how to raise a child properly because
my conscience motives me to learn and be observant. Being a great parent
takes patient, knowledge, creativity, the willingness to learn, and to
suck in your foolish pride. Having an open mind is also very important.
A closed mind is a dangerous mind.It is important to talk to them at eye level. You don't want them to fear you because you are bigger. It needs to be a mutual respect. After each learning session, you want to make sure they really understand what you taught them. You would have them explain it back to you. Don't just take a "yes mommy" as an answer. Get them to repeat what you taught them. And do it repeadily over time until you are certain that they really have it ingrained in their head. Now, how well this technique really depends on how good you are at teaching and how much you know about life. If you are a two year old yourself and you are trying to teach a two year old, you are S.O.L .
If you are dating a single parent and you want to teach/diciplane your
partner's child, you first have to become friends with the child. Kids
are so easy to work with if you know their little system. They have to
first like you and repect you before they will listen to you. I have dated
single moms before. It works like a charm. Kids love me because I know
how to talk to them. It normally takes months to build a tight bond with
the child. Once you feel that they really dig you, you can start teaching
and coaching. If you rush it, they will keep their distant from you. Your
child is also your teacher. As you teach, you will learn something about
yourself. You will also get better and better at teaching. I have some
homework for you. Next time your child misbehave, eliminate spanking,
yelling, and saying stupid things like "because I said so" as
options. Without those options, you have cornered yourself and now you
are forced to use your head. Everytime they misbehave, it now becomes
a learn experience instead of a painful experience. One very important
thing to remember is after each teaching session, give them a good solid,
loving huge and tell them you love them with all your heart and you are
doing your best. Tell them that mommy and daddy don't just say the words
"I love you". we back it up with actions. You are also teaching
your kids that actions speaks louder than words.You could say that "Life Is A Gift" and therefore, you did them a favor by giving them life. Even if life is truly a gift, would it matter if they were never born to know the difference? You wouldn't miss something if you never knew about it would you? No matter how wonderful life is or can be, it wouldn't matter if they were never born. Most people just listens to what society say and never question the things they hear. It seems like if something is said often enough that it must be true .
My goal is to promote independent thinking and education. There are way
too many sleepwalkers walking among us. That is why the world we live
in is so screwed up. If you are in tune with the world like I am, you
will see how bad things have gotten. Without education, it will result
in one ignorant generation creating another ignorant generation and the
cycle keeps going and going. In order for things to change, it needs to
start at home. It needs to start with Great Parenting. I'm not saying
that bad parents can't create a decent human being. There are always exceptions
to the rule. And vice versa; great parenting doesn't always produce a
great human being but it sure beats bad parenting. Kids are like copy
machines. They watch and copy everything you do. Your children will become
what you are, so be what you want them to be. If you are a crack head
or a hoochie mama, your kid will very likely turn out to be just like
you.When kids behave badly, they get spanked, beaten, or yelled at. What about the parents? A lot people are horrible as parents. Many parents are just as screwed up or even more screwed up than their kids .
Please do not forget that no child ever asked to be born. It's your responsibilty
as parents to do your best to care for and teach them because you brought
them here to fulfill your own selfish needs and wants. There are no objective
reasons whatsoever. In fact, they are actually doing you a favor by
being here. A lot of parents love to twist it around and make their
kids think just the opposite .
I think I know how the whole thing got started. It's a natural instinct
to make your offspring think you did them a favor so they will thank you
and take care of you when you're old. It only makes sense because if parents
were to tell their kids the true reason why they were brought into this
world, their kids will most likely rebel or resent them. That is one reason
why parent won't let the cat out of the bag. The other reason is that
most people don't even think deep enough or never even researched it to
figure it out why people have kids. I have spoken to so many adults that
are over 30 years old and still think that their parents did them a favor
. It's Amazing!
That is how powerful brainwashing is .
Before you freak out, hear me out. If you have a very good understanding
of how life here on Earth works, you would have no problem telling your
kids the truth. You can definiately screw yourself by telling them the
reason but not explain it to them properly. I have dealt with many kids
before. They are so easy to talk to if you know how. They have a very
open mind and are very forgiving. The child-free people can say parents
are selfish for having kids. The people with kids can say the child-free
people are selfish for not having kids. Here is a dose of reality. Having
kids/reproducing is in our nature. It's neither right nor wrong. It's
neither selfish nor selfless. It's what all species on this planet do.
The human species just love to pop them out like it's going out of style.
We love to have sex because it feels good but most don't use protection.
And then there are those who does not believe in abortion. And there you
have it folks, ONE OVER CROWDED PLANET .If you want to know where the world is headed, read these two articles. China / 2050. I'm not a doom and gloom type person, I just see things for what they really are that's all. I live in reality. Most people are too busy watching sports, following celebrities, playing video games, watching videos on UTube, tweeting, updating their facebook account, shopping, yacking on the phone, texting, having kids they can't afford, buying things they can't afford, reading beauty magazines, getting their hair or nails done, and last but not least, spend hours plugging pubic hair .
People who are in the know are preparing their kids to read and write
Chinese. Check out this video by a famous investor (US debtonation doomed,
Asia owns future). Click
here (will open a new window). When China takes over the world, don't
say I didn't warned ya .
For those who don't think it'll happen, here's a dose of reality. A quote
from the China article "the superiority of Chinese students particularly
in math, and the nation’s tireless work ethic". Now compare that
to the people of this country. Wahlah, there's your answer. China just
overtook Japan to be the world's 2nd largest economy. They are only a
few years from climbing over the U.S. Now go tweet that yo!!!
The next time you look your child in the eye, I hope you realize that their life is literally in your hands. You should be glad that your child have not figured out why they were created .
Don't worry, it's our little secret .
If you doubt everything I say, that is a great start. You should also doubt everything you hear from other people. That is how I got started. To find yourself is to think for yourself and not listen to everything people say because a lot people are sleepwalkers, ignorant, and delusional. When we were kids, we used to ask too many questions. When we become adults, we stop asking questions and just go with the flow. The non-thinkers are the Sheeps and the thinkers are the Sheep Herders. Sheeps get slaughtered. If you don't know Jack, you will get Jacked .Just when I thought parents can't get any more insane, check out this article. Like I said, kids have enough chit to deal with. |
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