Why People Have Kids
I used want kids when I was young. Like most people, I didn't know why
I wanted kids, I just wanted kids because it seemed like the thing do.
As I got older, I asked myself if I really wanted children. Before I made
my decision, I first needed to find out why people have kids. Below is
a list of reasons why people have kids. I could not and have not found
one Objective reason to have children. I will never bring a child into
this corrupted world we live in. My conscience just won't allow me. Knowing
what I know now, there is absolutely no way I can look my child in the
eye and just lie my ass off. I'd rather grow old alone and die a lonely
man. My conscience will not allow me to drag an innocent soul into this
mess we call life. If I ever want children, I will adopt. There are far
too many unwanted and neglected children. And besides, our planet is already
operating at full capacity. If we take on any more load, the darn wheels
are going to fall off boss. I prefer quality over quantity. We can't even
take care of the ones that are alive today.
The law requires you to have a degree or at least a certificate to do
almost anything these days. When it comes to creating a life, any crack
head can create a life. People should be required to go through parenting
classes and pass a whole bunch of tests prior to having a child. At the
very least, they should be required to take some classes or read this
article  .
I have been asked this question countless times over the years "When
are you going to have children?", "How many kids do you plan
on having?", "Don't you want kids?", "Why don't you
have any kids?". WTF is going on?
Never once was I asked "Do you even want kids?". There are a
gazillion sheeps out there that all think alike. Non thinkers automatically
assume everyone wants to have kids. No wonder our planet is so damn over
populated .
I can easily tell a thinker from a sheep as soon as they talk about kids.
Come on people, use your head. Think before you speak.
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Below are reasons why people have children. There are no objective reasons
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- You want someone to take care of you when you are old.
- You don't want to grow old alone and lonely.
- You think by having a child with your partner that they will
not leave you.
- You think you and your partner will have a tighter bond by
having a child together.
- Your partner is wealthy and you think you can get them for
at least 18 years of child support or other monies.
- You always wanted to have a baby because they are just so
darn cute.
- You want to have kids so you can give them what you never
had when you were a child. WOW! This is how dumb humans have
become.
- You want to have a baby so you can relive your childhood through
them.
- You are pressured by your parents to have kids because they
want grand kids to play with. This is the least selfish one.
- You think by having a child with your partner that they will
change their ways we you two can get along better. Top reasons
include stop gambling, stop smoking, they will settle down,
etc.
- You are good looking or smart and you want to see if your
kids will turn out to be just like you.
- You think you are so important to society that you need to
carry on your bloodline.
- You think society will look at you as a weirdo if you are
childless or child-free.
- You think by having a child brings you joy Having a child
does not automatically make you happy. Some people get rather
depressed by having children.
- You got pregnant on accident and decided to keep it (you
might want to read this).
- You don't want a child but your partner does. In order to
stay with your partner, you end up having a child with them.
- You think by having kids will make it feel more like a complete
family.
- You are religious and you think that is what god wants you
to do because if you go against god, you won't go to heaven.
I often wonder why god give man that ability to prevent birth.
Isn't that counterproductive?
- You think you are so intelligent and will be such a great
parent that you can raise a child to change the world (lets
look at the odds of your kid changing the world .
Throughout the history of the human race, there have been billions
of humans who have walked the earth. So far no one has been
able to alter the human genome to erase "greed" from
our gene. There have been a few super bright humans in history
but they have only been able to solve math or other small problems.
The person who can change human behavior for the better will
be the one to actually change the world. The guy that invented
alternate current (Nikola Tesla) actually made things worst
(so far). He made it too easy for people to waste energy. Which
in turn will bring the end to our species much quicker if we
don't come up with a solution to our energy needs soon. But
then again, would it matter how wonderful life is if you never
knew about it?)
- You want to stay or get on welfare.
- You want to have a purpose in life.
- Last but not least, Because You CAN!
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People don't give it much thought before creating a life. It's easy to
create a life based on selfish reasons. Everything in life is about odds.
Life is very challenging and not very pleasant if you have decent expectations
of what life "should" be. What can you offer your child if they
don't have the DNA to have a decent life. If they don't have the DNA to
be good looking or smart, what is your back up plan? Do you have enough
money set aside to give them a decent life because if your child is born
ugly or dumb, they are going to need all the money you can muster up to
give them a decent life. If you are not very smart, there is a higher
chance that your child will not be very smart because a lot of what your
child learn will come from you, the parent. If you are not very good looking,
the chance of your child being good looking is low. Anything can happen
but it still comes down to odds. That is why most people won't gamble
at the casino. If you don't have a whole lot to offer your child, you
are sending them out to the battle field with nothing more than a wooden
stick and a cape while the rest of the world is armed with knifes, guns,
and tanks. Being a good parent is like a good coach. An athlete can't
win any olympic medals if they have a horrible coach.
Happiness is measured by one's perception. It is very much like beauty.
It is in the eyes of the beholder. What makes you happy might not make
your child happy. No matter how wonderful you think life is, it is still
your own perception of happiness. You have no idea what your child's perception
of happiness is. You might be ecstatic to drive a Honda Accord but you
don't know if your child would feel the same. What if your child's perception
of happiness is having a private jet? You can try your best to get them
to live within their means but you have absolutely no control how their
mind function. You can raise all 10 kids the same way and I guarantee
you that not all 10 will come out the same. One might turn out to be a
blacksheep, a crack head, a gambler, a brilliant sciencetist, a super
athlete, etc. It's really the luck of the draw but they will have a much
better chance if they have great parents. If you are selfish and have
no conscience, you will say "tough shit, deal with it" .
Unless you have the ability to alter your child's DNA and influence their
perception of happiness, you are really making the child creation decision
based on a lot of uncertainties.
A lot of parents think they are off the hook once their kids become adults.
One can say that as long as you are alive, it doesn't matter how old your
kids are, you are still responsible for their well being because you created
them. It is ignorant to think that just because a human being becomes
an adult that they are "automatically" self sufficient. You
can urge your child to do their best but the rest is still on you. What
if their best isn't good enough? You should know that not all human beings
are mentally and physcially created equal. The most you can ever ask of
them is to try their best. Yes I know, it is so human of us to take the
easy road and just blame it on them when they fail. The way I see it,
no matter how old your child is, the parents should be disciplined (counseling
and education are the best ways to discipline) if their child cause harm
to another human being. Let me make an example. If I have a child and
he ends up killing your kid. You will be damn pissed. Now, if I never
created this child, your child would still be around today. With that
said, shouldn't I go to jail or something for causing you pain? If we
hold parents more accountable, there will be less crimes. I guarantee
it! It will never happen because parents will ever vote that into law
. It is not
insane to see it this way. It is logical. We apply the same type of logic
to everything else. If you breed a dog to fight and kill and that dog
ends up killing someone, you're going to jail .
I'm sure Jeffrey Dahmer's parents didn't raise him to be a serial killer.
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